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Malaysia's Most Trusted Dating Service
for singles that value serious relationships

100% Interviewed Profiles

Confidentiality

Pay-As-You-Date

We're not the typical matchmaking agency or social dating app in Malaysia.

Romance Butler is a matchmaking agency that caters to real people with genuine feelings in Malaysia and in Singapore. We go to great lengths to keep people with fake profiles away from our dating platform. Unlike dubious dating sites, we are a serious matchmaking agency in Malaysia that meet our customers' relationship goals and have never paid third parties to meet our customers, thus giving false hope. We have never done this and will never do it in the future either.

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How will we work for you?

We distinguish ourselves from the competition by operating on a "Pay-As-You-Date" basis. 

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Step One

Create your profile and start matching today. We conduct comprehensive interview and perform thorough background checks on every new client.

We get to know you during a relaxed and confidential conversation. The meeting is all about crystallizing your ideal type and identifying the relationship dynamic that will work best. 

Step One

Create your profile and start matching today. We interview each new member and verify each profile to ensure that there are no fake profiles.

We get to know you during a relaxed and confidential conversation. The meeting is all about crystallizing your ideal type and identifying the relationship dynamic that will work best. 

Step Two

We hand select each match carefully, by matching your relationship requirements with the rest of our verified dating candidates that suit your unique personalities. 

Your best traits will be introduced in an authentic way, making the real you alluring.

Step Two

We hand select each match carefully, by matching your relationship requirements with the rest of our verified dating candidates that suit your unique personalities. 

Your best traits will be introduced in an authentic way, making the real you alluring.

Step Three

Let's be candid about our job: it's difficult to find a very compatible match today. That is why Romance Butler provides a world-class dating service and embarks on a critical mission to find you the perfect match. 

Your dedicated butler carefully curate and prescreen your most compatible matches, send them to you for approval prior to arranging a date with the person you want to meet. Finally, It's time to go on a date that we've set up for you!

Step Three

Let's be candid about our job: it's difficult to find a very compatible match today. That is why Romance Butler provides a world-class dating service and embarks on a critical mission to find you the perfect match.

Your dedicated butler carefully curate and prescreen your most compatible matches, send them to you for approval prior to arranging a date with the person you want to meet. Finally, It's time to go on a date that we've set up for you!

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does Romance Butler charge?
Romance Butler is upfront about what it costs to use our services. We don’t talk about cancellation charges, and hide the real price. We believe in total fee transparency.

Our unique pay-as-you-date model ensures that clients are only charged when they choose to meet their matches, with dates starting at RM500 each.
 
We also collect a one-time application fee of RM200 from all our interviewed clients, this fee is non-refundable.
Why is Romance Butler's service fee much lower than similar matchmaking agency in Singapore and Malaysia?

Most matchmaking services are priced unrealistically high. By serving most of our customers online, we do not have large offices and wall of decorated success stories to impress you. Just a curated matchmaking service at a fair price. Just like Airbnb that connects home owners and renters online.

Why is it important for Romance Butler to have pay-as-you-date matchmaking service?

Some members need more dates to find the one, some members meet the one on the first date. Our pay-per-date policy is fair to all members. 

More importantly, our mission is to achieve the best case scenario for any arranged couple to eventually get married. A dating package with an unlimited number of dates may be abused by a member who does not have the objective of getting married, and hence the importance of pay-as-you-date policy.

How is Romance Butler's dating service different?

As your reliable dating agency, we offer straightforward matchmaking services without any hidden fees.

Our pay-as-you-date model allows all members to smoothly move from dating to a committed relationship.

Why wouldn't Romance Butler allow me to view pictures of a match?

Confidentiality

We practice strict confidentiality and sometimes a picture can easily share too much of member, especially for professionals and elites like you. 

People have a tendency to make snap judgments based on appearances

It's a common tendency for people to pass judgment, and matchmaking clients are no exception. It's surprising how clients can dismiss the opportunity to meet someone who could be their ideal match just because they don't like the jacket or hairstyle in a photo. 

Individuals cling to their preferred 'type'

In the world of matchmaking, we've discovered that love often blossoms between two people who may not fit each other's preconceived notions. It's fascinating how individuals who have been pursuing a specific type of partner throughout their lives may still find themselves searching for "the one." This is a clear indication that they should broaden their horizons and explore new connections. Unfortunately, many individuals pass up the opportunity to meet someone extraordinary simply because they don't fit their preconceived idea based on a single photo.

Will my match be able to see my contact details?

Rest assured, we prioritize your privacy and will never disclose your contact details or pictures to your date without your explicit consent.

I'd like to appoint Romance Butler as my matchmaker, where can we meet?

We mainly connect with our clients via scheduled video calls.

At Romance Butler, we specialize in offering unique online matchmaking services designed specifically for the Malaysian and Singaporean communities. Our top priority is protecting the privacy of our valued clients, which is why we implement additional steps to conceal certain information during the verification process.

How soon will I get a date after completing my relationship profile?

We put in dedicated hours of hard work to exceed the expectations of our valued customers. However, when it comes to matters of the heart, patience is key. Rest assured, we will reach out to you promptly with exciting news about a potential match, using the contact information you have provided us.

When we begin making excessive promises or offering guaranteed results, it raises suspicions and undermines our integrity.

That being said, we accept only a percentage of applicants; hence ensuring you that each match is upstanding.

Is Romance Butler a SDNTrust accredited dating expert?
SDN introduced the SDNTrust Accreditation framework for Singapore dating industry in 2007 to professionalise brick-and-mortar dating businesses by ensuring availability of affordable and quality services for singles.
 
​The current dating landscape has evolved to comprise of many new businesses facilitating social interaction like dating apps and social networking platforms. The SDNTrust Accreditation Framework and its Trustmark has ceased end of 2022 for SDN to explore new efforts to better support the local dating sector.